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✨Your Affirmation of the Week✨

“I trust in the Universe’s timing and know that every setback is a setup for something greater.”

I bet you have gone through something like this: You poured your heart into something—whether it’s a project, a relationship, a potential job position, a new business venture, or a goal—only for things to not go as planned.

Disappointment sets in, and you wonder if you’re even on the right path. The thing is, I’ve been there more times than I can count, feeling stuck in a loop of self-doubt and frustration.

But over time I’ve learned one of my biggest lessons to date: Setbacks aren’t here to stop us—they’re here to teach us. Furthermore, setbacks don’t define us—they shape us. The rejection, the delays, and even the harsh feedback—are not roadblocks; they’re redirections.

And that’s what I want to talk to you about this week. Life happens, and as much as we would love for everything to go perfectly as planned, we can't always control the curveballs. But we can control how we react—and that changes everything.

In Today’s Newsletter, We’ll Cover:

• 💡 Why setbacks aren’t failure—they’re lessons in disguise.

• 💘 How to handle disappointment, negative feedback, and rejection gracefully.

• 🌟 Practical ways to shift your mindset and stay on track when life throws you curveballs.

why setbacks are stepping stones to success

Setbacks suck (at least we think they do). But here’s the truth: every setback carries a lesson, however, it’s only visible if you’re willing to look for it.

💔 Rejections force us to refine our skills.

⏳ Delays teach us patience and give us time to strengthen our plans.

🌱 Negative feedback helps us grow and pushes us to do and be better.

When things don’t go as planned, it’s not a dead-end. Think of it as just a detour. A layover to your final destination if you will. Keeping in mind that success isn’t about avoiding these challenges—it’s about using them to become stronger, wiser, and more resilient.

here are five ways you can handle setbacks without losing momentum

1️⃣ see setbacks as opportunities for growth

When life throws you a curveball, ask yourself “What can I learn from this?”

💡 For Disappointment or Rejection: Maybe you didn’t get the job, Or you didn’t land the client. Instead of spiraling, reflect: What skills can I sharpen to get me closer to success next time?

💡 For Delays: Start (if you’re not already) seeing delays as divine timing—trust that everything is working perfectly for your highest good. Use that extra time to revisit your goals and redefine your plan. A little extra time doesn’t hurt. And sometimes, what feels like a pause is actually preparation.

✨ Action Step: Grab your journal and write down 1-3 lessons or areas of growth that came from a recent setback you experienced. Ask yourself: How can this serve my long-term vision.

2️⃣ practice gratitude in the midst of setbacks

I know it’s hard to feel grateful when life isn’t going your way—but trust me, gratitude is a game changer and can go a long way into helping you shift your focus from what’s wrong to what’s still right.

💡 For Negative Feedback: Even when it stings, remind yourself that feedback is a gift. It’s an opportunity to level up.

(keep in mind that not every piece of feedback is valuable. People love sharing their input and advice that quite frankly you never asked for. So when I talk about feedback, I’m talking about valuable feedback from people who have been in a similar situation and have actually done it.)

💡 For Delays or Rejections: Instead of dwelling on the “no,” look at everything you do have going for you. Gratitude will keep you grounded in abundance, and not in scarcity.

 ✨Action Step: Before bed tonight, write down 3 things you’re grateful for—even if today didn’t go as planned.

3️⃣ focus on what you can control

Life doesn’t always play fair, but your power lies in your response.

💡 When Disappointment Hits: Take multiple deep breaths before reacting. Followed by reminding yourself of your long-term vision, and then ask: What’s the next best step I can take right now?

💡 Shift Your Energy: If something derails your plans, channel that energy into what you can do. For example: If you’re feeling stuck after a setback (like not getting that promotion or an opportunity you were hoping for), take that energy and use it to work on a passion project, refine your resume, or even treat yourself to an activity that brings you joy—like going for a picnic, having lunch with friends, creating your vision board, or practicing self-care.

 ✨Action Step: The next time something doesn’t go as planned, pause and ask yourself: What’s one thing I can still control today?

4️⃣ give yourself permission to feel & heal

Girl, It’s okay to feel frustrated, disappointed, or even angry. We are humans after all and those emotions are more than valid. You don’t have to “push through” all the time.

 💡 Why Does This Matter? When you suppress your emotions, they don’t magically disappear (as we wish they would), instead they just pile up. So you acknowledging your feelings gives you space to process and move forward.

✨Action Step: Write it out. Talk it out. Cry it out if you need to. Then once you’ve given yourself the space to feel, ask yourself: What’s the first small step I can take toward healing?

Remember, no one can tell you what you’re feeling is crap.

5️⃣ build a resilient mindset through affirmations

When self-doubt creeps in, affirmations remind you of your strength and potential. They help you reframe setbacks as setups for success.

🌟 Examples of Affirmations You Can Use:

• “Every setback is preparing me for something greater.”

• “I trust the universe’s timing and know that everything is working out for my highest good.”

• “I am resilient, capable, and unstoppable.”

✨Action Step: Choose one affirmation from above (or create your own) and repeat it several times every day—especially during those tough times. I like to take it a step further and write the affirmation on the front page of my journal. That way every time I open it, I catch a glimpse of it and say it out loud.

gentle reminders 💖

• ✨ Setbacks are part of the journey—they’re not the end.

• ✨ Focus on what you can control, and let go—trust that the universe will take care of the rest.

• ✨ Gratitude and resilience will carry you further than frustration ever could.

this week’s homework 📝

1️⃣ Write down a recent setback and identify 3 lessons or opportunities it gave you.

2️⃣ Practice gratitude daily by listing 3 things you’re thankful for, even on the tough days.

3️⃣ Choose an affirmation and repeat it daily to help you build resilience.

recommendations corner 📚

Here are 3 empowering resources to help you handle setbacks like the boss you are:

• 📚 Book: End the Struggle and Dance with Life by Susan Jeffers. This beautifully written book teaches you how to let go of control, embrace life’s uncertainties, and find joy in the present moment. It’s a must-read for anyone learning to navigate life’s ups and downs.

• 🎥 YouTube Short: Overcoming Setbacks by Rich Toll & Kelly McGonigal. A quick uplifting video where the speakers share powerful insights on using setbacks as opportunities to grow.

• 🎶 Spotify: Gratitude Affirmations. A calming, empowering playlist to help you cultivate gratitude in your daily life. Add this to your routine for a quick mood boost.

And just like that, the goal-setting series has come to an end! 🎉You’ve shown up, done the work, and laid a solid foundation for your dreams this year. I hope you’re as proud of yourself as I am!

But don’t worry—the journey doesn’t stop here. Next week, we’re kicking off a brand new theme focused on growth, balance, and stepping into your power. Think of it as the next chapter in building the life you love. I can’t wait to dive into this with you—it’s going to be SO good!💖

Gentle Reminder: Setbacks don’t define you—they refine you. They’re shaping you into someone stronger, wiser, and more resilient.

Your dreams are worth it, and so are you. Keep going.

🤍With so much love, Carren 🤍

Founder, The Daily Page